The Sickness in the System – Persuading Women to Have More Children

🌿 ✍🏼 It’s really funny — looking at the Establishment. They want us to keep breeding, because they still need just enough of us to use in their favour - but they also don’t want us empowered. 

So they block the Soul on entry, via self-disconnecting schools — and they’ve altered our societies to split us apart chasing that fictitious rent and mortgage. 

So what do you have? Two adults working their asses off whilst their children are disconnected from them (their parents) – children outsourced into day care (expensive) and schools (still disconnected from family tribe) for most of their learning life. 

Parents – these two individuals working 9-5pm daily – are also disconnected from each other for a large percentage of time during the week/ month/ year.

We end up with high divorce rates, and angry teenagers. But none of that is their concern. 

We seriously have to ask ourselves, ‘What have we done?’ When all of this was free and optimal in a more natural tribal / community set up — no mortgages, no land to have to buy or rent to live, and ALL of us, child, mother, men, women, elderly — supported emotionally, socially, physically, in (original) tribe. 

no nursing homes to fund

no daycares

no private schools

no mortgages

no widespread isolation/ loneliness/ mental ill health

The list of all therapies and solutions we need to fund arising from isolation/ separation model of living… is endless

What is needed/ needs to be done is to support and encourage that natural design and connectivity to evolve. 

Some places have easier frequency to have/ create community around me — like I do, having created a network of single mothers here, so we can support each other somehow. We take turns giving each other a Tuesday or Friday off, so our sisters can go on a date, or do what’s important to her, and have a break from being a mother. Her child gets to be with an adopted aunt like me (!), and my kids, adoptive “cousins”. 

Impossible to do in busy impersonal cities, I’ve had to move and look for a place with softer frequency.

It’s what we’ve had to do to make it work. It’s better, but it’s not enough. 

Reading this ☝️- it’s so cringeful how governments offer money for reproduction. That meets their ultimate goal — for us to breed. It doesn’t extend to our mental health or the mother and child’s optimal well-being afterwards. That’s not their goal. They don’t care about that. 

As we witness here in Australia. Women here receive subsidy for having babies. They receive double subsidy if they’re separated/ a single mother. The result = a lot of young mothers from Australia’s less educated population who have babies to make money and stay at home. 

Until the kids turn 15, then what now (??) — they now need to go back to the work force. 

They don’t think of the consequences that far ahead, as young people. And the costs on a level of mental health and the level of domestic violence cases here, are staggering. 

Children popped out for money, but raised without a noble parents’ view to optimise their potential and development. 

They become stunted adults who are angry, and have now become parents themselves. 

And the DV cycle continues. 

For so long as we have leaders who do not share our core values and who don’t respect our natural design as human beings - all this is, is a continuing train wreck. 💥 

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THE SOLUTION? 

As idealistic as what I’ve written ☝️ sounds, it’s the bottom line solution. Any other policy such as this article below, is a band-aid solution that doesn’t fix the out-of-whack, grosse imbalance in everyone’s central nervous system, arising from systems and culture that are highly INCOMPATIBLE, and DAMAGING, to our natural design. The only way to heal the gird, is to respect our natural design - on every level : 

I’m doing it where I have power — applying this to myself and my kids, and young adolescents I mentor. Where I can speak and write about this in my local community of parents, or online —- I have, to the extent of my current capacity. 

I need to do more, it’s getting there. We all need to take a stand for the respect that needs to be in place. 

My theory is, it starts with individual application, then radiates out via modelling, and if any of us feel called to run workshops to educate more people on this, the effort just needs to keep radiating out from authenticity that way. Unwavering. 

The more individuals take a stand for this, it’s the only way to get to the 100th monkey. 

I know there’s current effort in putting fires down and taking down the dark governments unfolding. Perhaps there are people called to have that purpose. 

But after the energy injected in taking them down, we still need to face the question of what sustainable systems we want in place/ created. 

There’s a lot of work to do…

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