Mother’s Day Under a Scorpio Full Moon: Accountability, Ancestry, and the Cost of Denial

Part of me found the world 🌎 tiresome on Mothers Day. 

Why do we insist on making stupid decisions on repeat [the definition of Insanity], when we already know what we need to do? 

It probably didn’t help that my Scorpio ♏️ Sun ☀️ was celebrating Mothers Day, under a Scorpio full moon. 🌕 

I was looking at things deeper than usual. 

And with Mars in stellium with my sun ☀️, let’s just say, Warrior Mother was out. This goddess has zero tolerance for bullshit.  Or anything Fake. 

Before I dive into it - I’d like to greet and acknowledge all Mothers for doing your best, and for your devotion. 

For those good mothers — the world is forever grateful for your heart ♥️ and your service. 

For the shadow queen mothers, who do not know how to mother, or who mother through their wound — you have my empathy, but not my endorsement. 

It’s time to get your act together and cut the crap. What you are doing or failing to do has damaging consequences, and you are fully aware of it. The world does see through your fake false veneer of sainthood. 

I can see and sense you from a mile away, and see right through your bullshit, probably when most others can’t. 

For the sake of the children whose lives you perverted who are now full grown adults, still assimilating the trauma of your motherhood —- don’t let yourself off the hook. 

Now is your opportunity to clean up your act and take accountability. Speak to your fully grown son or daughter, and hold account for the perversion in your parenting. For the sake of your health and theirs — clean up your shit, so you can sleep well at night from henceforth.

Action and consequence isn’t too late to learn. 

Let us look at the state of the world, and how we have raised our children, our humans - shall we? 

Bosses, parents, employees. Government officials — 80% at the least are wounded immature children in fully grown adult bodies. That wounded child is now a parent, a boss, an employee, a country’s cabinet leader, daresay - the president-elect of every fucked up godforsaken country on the planet. 

You and i seriously need to know — it’s time to say “Enough is enough.” 

Enough of what? 

Enough of modeling that abuse of whatever kind is acceptable and normalised to our children, households, and society.

Enough of delegating children to schools, and blaming teachers and the system when your child is off the rails. 

Enough of mistaking academic accolades for true character and worth in your child. 

Enough of washing your hands clean, getting your child diagnosed by a shrink who only knew them for that hour session — so you can blame the child for their ADHD, instead of looking at whether your parenting allowed your child to be seen and celebrated and welcomed to this planet — for ALL that they are. 

Step out of your denial and lack of accountability, and clean it up now. 

The world needs good sensible grounded loving and accountable mothers — and the world needed them yesterday. We don’t need them tomorrow. We need them NOW. 

Before I dive even deeper — 

I’m also taking this moment to acknowledge ALL of  your mothers, and your mother’s mother, and your ancestry line of mothers. 

Beyond the shallow commercialization of this day, I feel there’s a bigger invitation to take today - to take stock now, to go within, and embrace and heal, one of our common deepest wounds —- 

⭐️ What did our mothers teach us?

⭐️ What as mothers do we teach our children? 

Our mothers taught us -

How to love ourselves

How to give love

How to ask for love

How to love and care for another

How to love and care for ourselves 

How to love and care and respect another

How to love and care and respect ourselves 

She taught you -

That you are lovable

That you are deserving of love

That you are seen, and heard

That you have a place in this world

That this world is a safe place for you and ALL of you, and your authentic emotions. 

—-

As a mother, your are either above this line ☝️ 

or below this line 👇🏼- 

—-

Our mothers also taught us -

How not to love ourselves

How to be hard on ourselves

How not to give love

How not to ask for love

How not to love and care for another

How not to love and care for ourselves 

How not to love and care and respect another

How not to love and care and respect ourselves 

She taught you -

That you are unlovable

That you are undeserving of love

That you are unseen, and unheard

That you have no place in this world

That this world is an UNsafe place for you and ALL of you, and your authentic emotions. 

—-

If you read this and realize your mother failed big time, and managed to fuck you up and render you useless and unfit for normal relationship — let not one fractured person’s dumb decisions keep perpetuating. 

Dust yourself off. You are a whole and separate person with your own brain and choices — tomorrow is a brand new day. 

Let us say ENOUGH, to excuses, and any further stupidity. 

🌎 How we’ve raised our humans as a race so far these last two centuries gets an “F” to date — if we were graded as a planet right now. 

Time to study, live, and BE a-new, draw a line on the sand, and live smart the way you already know how. 

—- 

Yesterday was a tough day.